save a spot, will be here at some point

[cat03]

thanks everyone))))))) I highly value your imput. I told H I was not signing, of course he fumed, but I was adamant that unless he paid for a L working for me I wasn't going to do it.

OT was right, the more time passes the more he is pulling back his offers. He is now whining that he's taking w/him the biggest debt (the one he brought back from the 1rst S, where he spent $$ like water on restaurants, gadgets,clothes,VEgas gambling,etc) he has some NERVE!! he's done that 2x now in the past week.
I do think someone is poisoning him, he was fine with that before and now he brings the cc debt as if he's doing me a favor.
And tonight he mentioned how little he'd benefit from not selling the house, WOA!!! he said he'd let us stay here and then get the proceeds when the house sells, he is expecting all the equity 'til then, I told him he gets the equity for the past 7yrs he's been here, he didn't look too happy about it.
THe house had gone up in value thanks to the skyrockting prices of last year, but it also lost value due to the recent housing market, homes 50x better than my place are NOT selling, we'd be luck to sell this place that needs lots of upkeep.

He pushed the letter again, and i told him I already agreed on mediation, if he wanted to call right now, he did, talked to the guy and we'll be going on friday. In the meantime I must see my own L til then, I really don't have any $$ for it but I have to at least 1hr, I have a bit of time. H and I agreed on an amount that seemed fair to both of us for CS, though I would like to check one more time, maybe L can help there.

Making the list now, I know he's going to balk about a few things, oh well, dont' care, will do my best to not leave anything to chance.