L2,
I agree with ROOT. Anyway, college is not exactly a 4 year commitment to the institution where you begin. It, like life, is a journey. If your sitch changes during these years, your family will just have to deal with that.

Just my $.02
SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
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