Neecy, What LWB said and GF, too ... You've laid out your boundaries. Your H has balked at them, but yet he seems like he doesn't want to quite throw in the towel. Only you can decide if you can live with the cake-eating or not. Some people can't.
I pretty much did what GF said "I looked past H, OW, the A, and tolerated it." It was d@amed hard. But it kept H here at home. In the meantime, I DBed my butt off. In the end, OW got tired of waiting for him to make a decision, turned into a b!tch, and that was the end of the A.
The pics are cute! Somewhere in this forum is a thread devoted to pics of many of us ... we'll have to dig that out.
