Cat hon, I think you possess my tendency to feel horrible that someone might be upset with you in any way. For any reason, regardless of whether they're friend or foe. But things are at a point where you have to LET THAT GO and realize that there is no way to get through this without its accompanying negativity. It's the ANT concept on steroids.
You owe this man *nothing*. That he is raving worried that you're going to 'screw him over' is nothing more than his own guilt eating him alive and kicking his survival instinct into overdrive, garnished with OW's poisonous input. That's not your problem.
