Thank you for sharing about your experience. I have a WAW right now, we're separated and I thought things might be improving but today I just have this feeling like it's all over. She can't really even say exactly what it is that she'd like to be different (better sexual relshp) overall. I feel so stuck like I can't push for change but also just waiting feels awful.
Sometimes I'm just so unsure how much is about me vs. her. For sure, I have contributed to some of the problems. But others I know say I am taking on way too much of the responsibility and that this is more about her stuff. I'm not sure if she is fully able to identify being in MLC, though she has all the signs of it. She keeps saying how it's been the best relationship of her whole life. On the other hand, I just feel like she's distantly engaging and only doing so out of guilt. It is a horrible place to be.
Did you know that you were experiencing MLC? Did you still love your wife through that time?
