It just blows my mind that she is so brazen to say 'wait for me'.
Mine, too. Sounds like she's trying to keep her options open. "I wanna see if OM will have me, and if he doesn't, then I'll come back to you." Pretty messed up, IMO.
I would hold off on the letter. Pointing out that she, too, was to blame for the downfall of your M is just telling her she's wrong, and my guess is that she won't want to hear that. She has to come to this realization on her own. Write it if you want to, but then put it away.
Last edited by GoingForward; 03/11/0812:57 AM.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
