Originally Posted By: karen43
]H has been nit-picking (I think it was GF who told me about this)...


I confess - That was me! ;\)

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... but for some reason H wanted me to acknowledge him or something, and he kept saying, Karen did you hear me? I have to leave now. a couple times, so then I turned around and just kind of mumbled, Yeah, bye.


\:D I LOVE IT!!! Probably not proper DB etiquette, but still - I love it!

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The negatives are that after about 2 months of him not texting OW in front of me, he started doing that again yesterday. I have to believe he is trying to maybe push me away or create a fight with me which would help with his guilt, which I just don't want to do.


Good for you! It sucks that he's doing this again, but I'm very happy to hear that you're in control of your reactions and not letting H get the better of you. Way to go, Karen!

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I would like him to feel 100% of the guilt as I think he should when he moves out this Saturday.


He may not act like it or feel it on Saturday, but trust me, hon. He will someday. \:\/ He's letting go of the best thing he's ever had. You. \:\)

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell