For personal goals, would that include getting a full-time teaching job for next year, finding a place to live (when I first move to Iowa I will be living at my parents' house, but after I get some money i will rent a place), stuff like that? I am already working with an IC to increase my self-confidence and independence.....
Also, please continue to advise me re. how to treat H at this time. I know I need to "take care of me" and the kids, but I also want to know how to deal w/h. I am getting the vibe that the tough love thing is the best course but curious how that should play out, how tough is tough, what about the kids, etc...
Anyway my goals are few right now, get a job and start taking care of myself and my kids as best I can. Don't like the idea of single parenting but guess I am "shared" parenting at this point if I refuse to interact w/H...
