My wife and I have been seperated for 1 month. We've seperated in the past but always put a bandaid on the real problems. She dropped the BOMB but she had no where in our area to go so I left. We did 3 assesment sessions with a MC. Last one was this past Friday. Now I am once again in limbo waiting on her to decide if she wants to start counsuling or get a D. I stopped chasing, ILY, frequent calls, and all the other stuff about 3 weeks ago. I am now seriously wanting to go dark, the only problem is my Daughter is with the WAW. I want to call every night to tell my little girl I love her and good night but I feel it is giving the W some sort of security. I will be ok with not talking to my daughter for a couple of days (for the sake of my marriage) but I am concerned that the W will view this negatively. Can anyone help me with this?
