Well, J my friend, you're not alone.

I'm glad I'm not the only one who seems to be going through a bit of a rough patch. (Wait, that sounds bad...I'm not GLAD anyone else is!!! ) At least you and your W are TALKING about stuff. I just seem to be spinning my wheels.

I'm feeling spurts of suspician. Based on very little but my own nagging sense that things aren't "right". I too wonder if not only H, but I am settling for something like "good friends" vs a passionate M.

Oy this is hard...Thank goodness we're all here for each other.

And SAM, I know you haven't made the direct suggestion to me, but I think I'll join you and LL with the "3 positive things", I could really use a perspective change myself right now!

Shiny