Evie,

I have seen it over and over again. WAS who has OW or OM looks like they get it all, when really the pain and embarrassment is great.

By making the choice, either together or apart, to take this trip, they will be humiliate and false. It will bring stress to the relationship, and really you ARE in a much better place.

You hold your head up girl! She will be compared to you and found lacking, by the school, family, friends and the community.

I can almost promise you, they are uncomfortable. This discomfort can not compare to the pain they will be experiencing when the A dies, and they are left with nothing. The running will stop, but the hurt, a legacy for them.

Believe it.

Last edited by Holly06; 03/10/08 11:15 PM.
Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.