well is seems she is dead set on going to our old collage town. so im makeing a list and getting things set up to keep us away from the bar district. it sucks because i was a head bouncer at the biggest bar in town so i made a lot of contacts through the years. many of the bar ownwers in town and i are on a first name basis and actualy we exchange Christmas cards. my W used to cook dinners for a lot of these guys. so she wants to see them all. but shots get bought and drinks get poured. and im afraid if i DO say something if she does do something taht hurst me, i will be doing nothing but validating her feelings about how much she has grown with out me. so im sctualy planing a play at one of the collages and the B&B we are staying at has couch rided throught the park. so here goes nothing
