Thanks seek, i'm really happy that my friends from piercing have followed me over here to offer kindness and support. I wondered across to your post today, but didn't have much to offer. But when i read the last post on your thread it gave me the push i needed to seek counselling. So i guess thats a positive.
Jen - S1 had a meltdown tonight and then i went for a swim, so I couldn't get to call you. Hope Sophie is doing ok after her op?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> I think they are both just trying their own "act as if" - perhaps embarrassed at being caught and publicly "outed", and now determined to carry on as though nothing ever happened.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Seek - i think you may be right, although how can you brush an affair under the carpet and 'act as if' it didn't happen?
There will be colleagues on that trip that may publicly be civil to H and ow, but underneath I know (as 1 told me)that they are not comfortable with whats happened and not looking forward to it now either. I think its unfair of them to place that burden on the staff.
P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07