Well tomorrow will be one week since I laid out my boundaries and H decided that if the rule was no conact with ow he could not do that. So he was leaving. He has not left yet and everyday acts more and more "normal" as if he has no intention of going anywhere. On thursday last week I went and visited OW at her work, he was irate and said any chance at us staying together was ruined by that and now has not mentioned it since. He brought home a movie to watch saturday and then proceeded to go to a hockey game at 1:45 in the afternoon yesterday and not make it home until midnight all the while texting to let me know he'd be home in 20 "i promise" until about 10:30 when the communication stopped. Lawyer called on Saturday and husband acted shocked even thought it was our decision to have him call. Ever since he called he has joked about me paying him spousal support like none of this is real. I told my sister in law last week when I thought that everything was going to be out in the open I think she thinks she has hit the jackpot with gossip and went home and told her 15 year old daughter and her H(no suprises there) and then went to the store and peeked through the window at the girl and calls me everyday asking who knows this and did you tell this person. I finally said listen please do not tell anyone else and her reply was I won't as I know you would like to tell your family first - I said no because it is no one's business!!!
I have noticed a bunch of disney pics up I wasn't sure before if pics could be posted with other people in them, but in case anyone wants to put a face to a name here are D and I at Disney last month.
