Just a quick update.

I didn't bring up the e-mail thing with my W last night. We ended up having a really nice evening...gave her a nice massage in candlelight and that led to @#$%. I've decided...I mean really decided...to just chill for a while and enjoy the ride, let my W come around in her own time. I think she will. I just need to make it easier for her to do so.

Yes, I'm upset about her lying, but after reading everyone's responses, I can see why she'd do it. I do know that she isn't cheating on me anymore, and it seems she has less and less feelings for OM...but as JJ says, I'm sure those will still occasionally rise to the surface here and there. She keeps telling me (and did so again last night) that she feels so responsible for my feelings. I believe that lets me know why she hasn't told me how she's run into OM a couple of times.

I want to thank everyone for keeping me straight. I REALLY needed the help yesterday.

jethro