I have been on this site for a couple weeks now and am reading the book and doing my 180! After reading about the MLC, I am 99% sure that is what I went through about 3 years ago. I had all the classic signs and she even told me that was what I was doing. I woke up 18 months ago when I found myself talking to OW and considering meeting her. Wife found out and I was so ashamed! I have been working hard since then to make things right. I have a renewed lease on life and what is really important and that is my family. I moved them to a new house and away from my extended family and all their issues and am trying to make a better life for us.
I just wanted to put this out there for all of you that have a guy going through this. He can come out of it and be ok. I don't know what I was thinking at the time, but I know how I feel now and it is amazing! I look forward to each day with my family with renewed excitement and I have enjoyed life so much more since then.
(FYI: I am on this forum because I think my wife is going through her MLC now and is trying to be a WAW. I am working very hard to be patient and learn as much as I can about this... She stayed by me and I am going to do the same for her)
