Your husband sounds depressed to me. You shouldn't take his depression personally.
I hate to be blunt, but does your husband contribute finanically to the household? does this help allow you to be a good mom and take care of things? How would this change if you were divorced? Wouldn't it make it harder to study and focus on grad school? These are things you should consider....
When did the EA end?
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
