For crying out loud, I'll just blurt it right out. Talk to HIM. You've got some kind of background of faith, so this is not all new territory for you.
After work today I'm gonna have it printed. My new T-Shirt that says "Bworl Rocks".
I will send you one, Frank.
Frank with all due respect and consideration, there is an enemy that entered your family many, many years ago. The intent was to destroy you before you ever rose to where God meant for you to be the day he formed you in your mother's womb and numbered every hair on your head. That enemy came in swift and established a stronghold in your life before you even entered Kindergarten. He entered through the people a child is born to love and trust the most; your mother, father, grandmother.... They betrayed the innocent trust of an innocent child and set the course for your life. You have been TAUGHT that you can not believe in that which you can not see, touch and make sense of with your finite mind but I am here to tell you, that is EXACTLY what you HAVE to believe in now. NOT for your marriage, but to stop a course of events that will also take your children.
This has been, is presently and will continue to be, the one route in which the enemy keeps you away from the Truth. But just in case that wasn't enough to hold you down, he has now surrounded your family, ensnared it, with tentacles of the occult- and no matter how much "spirit" talk it allows, it will never be the Light of a true and risen Savior nor will you be led to Him through it. Your wife brought that into your home. In ignorance yes, granted, but why do you suppose you are the one being spoken to about that which is contrary to what she brought in, Frank? Do you think everything is just random and coincidental?? WAKE UP.
I have watched from afar and even when I've wandered off lost again myself - I have always seen clearly your real situation but I have been afraid to say so because the backlash will be fierce. Thing is, today, I don't care about backlash. Someone has to tell you. Today it is going to be me.
There is a call on your life but at best, at this rate, you will never rise to it because you're missing the One thing that will push you ahead the rest of the pack, Frank.
Jesus Christ.
Nothing happens by accident.
Your entire life has a purpose ordained by the creator of everything that IS in this whole world and He is orchestrating your heartfelt realization of it right at this very moment. Everything you have been through, you have been through in order that you would be HERE...IN THIS MOMENT...Where you get to choose, like everyone else, who will you serve, Frank?