We've only made small talk today really, via email. I have a hard time with not asking "what about us?" when we're talking this nicely. I don't know how he doesn't know what to do/say about R when it's been fine between us. So confusing!
He is seriously depressed though and having a hard time with this. He thought leaving me would make things better and I can see that he's just going from place to place to figure things out and that didn't work so he's going back to his parent's place for now. Again, hopefully that'll be a good thing since he'll be 4 blocks away from us and can work on us then as well. It'll also keep him away from the b.s. of his 'friends' that don't say anything to help him. Who knows though. He could also be moving back with parents to save money to start D process. Not sure. He said he didn't know when he was moving but has already talked to his friend/room mate already about leaving.