Thanks for stopping by tbone. I appreciate your wisdom. Hindsight really is 20/20 isn't it? I would just like to step outside the situation for a moment and see what it is. Unfortunately, that's impossible, so I count on you guys.
Quoting tbone:Please, please, please don't snoop. All it did was kill my PMA most times I did it and for no good reason. It made me suspicious again and no matter how hard I tried to hide it, it showed in my interactions with her.
This rings very true, tbone. I guess I simply have to trust that she will take care of her side of our R. If not...well, I guess I'll know soon enough.
Quoting tbone:I think your R is heading in a very positive direction but it will continue to be a struggle. I think you are closer to your goals than you do.
I do hope you are right. In some ways I can see this, but in other ways, it's same 'ole same 'ole. Basically, the "love you, but not in love with you" thing. Did you experience this also a year ago?
Quoting Char:didn't know I am a guitar player did you?
Didn't know you were, but I am. Methinks you hit an A minor (ha ha).
Quoting Char:I don't know your W, but since she is there, and is trying to "do" whatever she can to "get right", then she absolutely must be trying to work out whatever feelings pertaining to om. If you want her to love you, you have to let her make that choice all by herself. Otherwise, it'll be 1/2 @$$ed and based on fear rather than open and actually "hers".
Yes, I see this a bit more clearly now. Still yet another reason not to bring up the snooping thing... BTW, my W doesn't use a password. I wish I could add one for her to prevent temptation, but that would be a little obvious.
Quoting Char:sorry jethro
It's okay. I have to count on you to set me straight, as you tend to provide a good counter-pose to my precarious stance.
