I think I've realized that though h went about things the wrong way by having his ea he was right to go. Trouble is I don't know how to get him back to that point of honesty again without going to the extreme he did. I'm starting to believe his a was not just a run of the mill a but was more of an exit a he just lost his umph to keep going but not because of me or us but more because of his societal or religious obligation to the "family".
I have to face facts and the facts (for years now not just recently) show that h isn't here even when he is. He's hiding behind alchohol or medication or sleeping or getting busy with projects that keep him away. It's not like he doesn't know how to engage with just me...he doesn't seem to know how to engage the children either...he's closer to the dog than any of us humans here. Sad, but true.
How can I get this across to him without being met with
If you don't like it you leave if you don't like it go see a lawyer and the for sale sign goes up and we disprupt the kids lives well that sucks silence
as always
UGH!
I did join a gym today and am working on getting into grad school so I'm already doing some real GAL things just wish they'd make a difference with h but I know they wont.
