Thats amazing!! You got it all there in a nutshell, sounds like he summed up the whole sorry mess and apologised. All he hasnt figured out yet then is where to go from here. But yes, I think thats massively positive that he opened up to you and said all of that ! Yes, keep listening and validating and allowing him to "vent". And carry on no contact unless necessary ! Only respond to him..how are you doing with that?

Ali
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Me: 37 !!
H: 34
T: 9 years
ILYBINILWY: 2 Nov 07
Own apartment: 26 Jan 08
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Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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