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mine wouldn't let me...I just noticed she was not feeling well. And she acknowledged...still early in stage 1, so that kind of help definitely not wanted. I would have done the hand, foot, etc...and I imagine no difference then either...
Would that have been a 180 for you or?

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Interesting you say that because it an interesting variable that I noticed also. Did he have the puppy before 1st knee? If so, you'll definitely have an opportunity to see a difference...if not I am curious what he wants you to do...It is still helping him and I think that's great, if you get your chance.

That reminds me that he did say this weekend, when I asked about the dog, that SHE wanted to know when I was going to visit and that anytime was good for him. We talk about her like she is human...weird...I know. We didn't have the puppy when he had his first knee surgery and he needed a lot of help then so I imagine with a needy puppy he will soon want my help if he doesn't already (we haven't talked about it). I have to ask my coach, but I will suspect that if she finds it a good idea to help him out that I will have to make sure that it is seen as a "friendly" gesture and not as a wife.


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Role Reversal(original)
WAW now LBS part I & II
WAW now LBS part III(current)
T: 9 yrs
M: 8 yrs
WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07
LBS: Sep 07-pres.