The weekend was as good as we've had in 4 months. If you didn't know anything was wrong, you'd say it was normal. WAW interacted with me like she hasn't for quite a while. I'd almost say more than baby steps back. Still no more D talk.

So how long do I go before an R talk? Not a pressure filled talk about all the affair issues, but just to find out where we're going? I'm really ok with the way things have been going as some real progress seems to be happening, but I know the question will come up in another week when DS19 comes home for spring break. He wants us to get him a car (which we will need with 4 drivers in the house) and he's also talking about summer vacation and I'm not going to commit to either of those as long as WAW has not told me she has changed her D plans. Do I wait until he brings it up before I talk to WAW about where we're going? That way it's not me broaching the subject.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.