Wandering Poster - The Next Thread

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Jeff!
I was thinking there....why stop at the nightstand?? What about the rest of the house !?? If your W brother is coming, she will want the whole place to look nice..and that could be bothersome and alot of work for her..wouldnt it be a good 180 if you said to her "I think we should get the house up together for your brother coming?" and then get on and do it !! Like, are there some DIY jobs hanging around..broken handles, or a wall you were meaning to get around to paint. What about just decluttering the main living areas? Sounds like your W wants you to step up a bit more, or am I reading too much into her comment? Or...could you ask her?? "Would you like the rest of the house ship shape, what can I help with?"

I dont know..just want to suggest something to help with the 180s as I know you were asking on another thread about that.

Thankyou for my funny birthday card !! ((((Jeff!))))
Ali
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