Quoting LL:tsk, tsk....are you going to justify all your bad actions according to whether or not they are wronger than her having had an a???
I suppose that did sound a bit defensive, didn't it? My apologies to Char...and thanks for the reality check. It isn't right no matter what. I will STOP snooping.
Quoting JJ:It seems like these might be just some "dying quivers" that are happening on the part of that R.
Not sure I understand, JJ. You think that she's still harboring feelings and keeping those secret?
Quoting JJ:Unless you think that confronting her on this right now would do more good than harm, would take you closer to your goals, it might be best to "do nothing".
Well, I'd kind of like to bring it out in the open, but it would be for selfish reasons...like relieving my conscience. Char really struck a chord here... This is a tough one. In a way, we're both lying, but...ahhh...I don't know... Perhaps keeping it under my hat for now is the right thing to do, but the lies...the lies...