Not much time, but wanted to suggest that you maybe take what you found out, and just kinda store it in the back of your head somewhere, and try not to focus on it right now. Keep it in mind, but don't take any action on it, and just keep your eyes open. And your arms, too.
It seems like these might be just some "dying quivers" that are happening on the part of that R. Seems to be pretty typical, and just that information you have in itself doesn't mean that your efforts are running off course.
It's tough, I know. Been there, done that. There were times when I had too much information, and would blow it when I "reacted" to it.
Stick with your goals, and really play the "distancer/persuer" role wisely now. Do both, but each for short periods of time.
Go out and do something for yourself today, and maybe just keep this under your hat for awhile. Unless you think that confronting her on this right now would do more good than harm, would take you closer to your goals, it might be best to "do nothing".
Try to stay out of her "feelings", 'cuz those may come and go. Focus on actions.
Luv ya man! Hang in there!
JJ
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