Quote: You should tell her you have her password, at least. That's so uncool. I can see looking in a journal if it's left out, but purposefully reading something she believes is private is just plain wrong, and you should admit your own wrongdoings too, maybe not directly, maybe just mention the importance of changing passwords often enough. YOU have to be honest too... then maybe you'll both agree that you are both failable.
Journal or e-mail, it's wrong, Char; however, it is significantly more deceitful to have an A. Not sure that it would help things if I told her I've snooped a couple of times. I am a very honest person and feel quite guilty about it, but it could backfire... I would do it if I thought it would help things...