Well DomR, I don't get it. I was so excited and upbeat Sat. morning and you come along and just knock me down cold. Telling me that I am not ready to work on my M simply b/c I can't remember every little detail over the past 42 years. Can you? Do you remember ever conversation, every day, every event. How long were you and your W married? If you can't take my word for what I say, then I won't offer anything else. You say it is all excuses, but how can you sit in judgement? B/c I don't agree with what YOU said works best for YOU......and just b/c I said it did not work well for me and my H.....you say I don't want to work on my M! Ok, that is your opinion.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!