Quote: I'm dying to call her on "seeing" the OM and her lying in my face, but what would that do? I'd expose my snooping...but man, it would feel good...
it'd feel good for all of a half a second til she started to blame your snooping for the reason she doesn't feel sure about the r.
jethro...you've seen me rant and rave about not feeling like my h is giving 100%...when I kept asking for it and asking for it, it seemed he withdrew and gave me less and less...sure I'd like for him to talk more about his "feelings" and crap like that but that really isn't a "normal" r now is it..yes, yes, I know we do not have "normal" r's right now do we..but if what we want is to have a "normal" r then perhaps it's best to "act as if" we do...
try to stop looking for the what's missing and look for the what's going well...focus on what's going well and it may just blossom...focus on what isn't going well and you'll find yourself drifting off into the crappy zone I've spent so much time in.
try not to dwell too much on the words w has used with her friend...sit and think back a while jethro...have the same questions and doubts entered your mind?
