Sandi's Here in Piecing from Almost WAW

[Dom R]

PS: i think the rather radical statement from me of "you're not ready to work on your marriage" probably deserves a bit more explaination.

If you wanted to work on your marriage, seems like you would be looking for solutions. Instead, you seems to be more looking for excuses NOT to work on it.
So, while you "want" a better marriage... seems like you're not ready to work for a better marriage.