One thing that always impressed me about his training was the emphasis on manly values; strength, control, HONOR is very big.
I agree with this. My H has a black belt too and even taught classes. He still screwed up BUT it is what convinces me that MLC is definatley an illness (albeit a seemingly intractable one).
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15