I have heard the same things from my W saying that once a week is normal for a married couple. I think that is BS if one of you is feeling rejected and unloved there has to be something else. I also have a love language which is touch I love hold hands and hug and kiss and all that stuff. For me Making love is the topping on the cake. It is the thing that makes me feel like she really loves me that I am worth being with. That is how I feel emotionally attached to her.
What if your W was willing 3 times a week would that help you feel more loved. What exactly do you need to feel loved. Maybe talk to your W and say this What 4 things really make you feel loved by me. Then You can tell her the 4 most important things to you. Ask her if you are meeting her 4 needs wether she would be more willing to meet yours. If she says yes start doing what she needs. Hopefully she is openminded enough to try.
