H is having affair after all

[Jen_Jam]

OK, I see. it's messages about work and the kids. I don't think you can ignore these ... if you did I can see how he might think you're keeping him from the kids. To me it looks like you'll have to live with these for now.

If, on the other hand, he strays into R talk, or starts to get angry, you are within your rights to say "no R talk" and if it's anger then something like "I'm sorry you feel angry at mt response. How would you prefer me to phrase responses".

I'm at home right now if you want to talk