are there ways that you can touch your w or have you touch her that are not sex??
I used to focus too much on the actual sexual contact...when that wasn't around I'd be annoyed...I didn't stop to appreciate that ole footbal pat on the butt my h so often gave me that annoyed the crap outa me...now I like it..I relate it to when other men would drape their arms around their w and give them a hug...
in trying to focus on the other means of touch I'm finding that I AM infact getting what I want..(ok I want some of it to be sexual too)
do you cuddle when you sleep? do you hug w? is she receptive? does w hug you? are you receptive? do you greet w with a kiss? is she receptive? does w greet you with a kiss? are you receptive? do you touch w in non-sexual ways each day? is she receptive? does w touch you in non-sexual ways each day? are you receptive?
there's a whole lot more to the whole physical contact love language than just sex...if you focus on what you are getting you may find that you are getting what you need.
