Yeah, I had a really interesting call with EX Friday. She had a bad morning so she called me and started going on about how S8 hates her, hates her job, can't pay bills she was stupid for thinking she could make it on her own, and that she's going to be alone all of her life. 2 thoughts raced through my mind, the first being...well you weren't happy with me so now I don't understand why you're happy as can be. The other was to tell her that I still love her and I'm will to do what it takes to work things out.
I did neither, instead I listened to her until she calmed down a bit. Later that day I called and checked to make sure she was doing ok and then asked if she wanted to me to get S8 for the evening to give her some down time. She declined asking me why I was being so nice. I explained that we had agreed to reamin frineds and that's all I was doing. I ended the call and have not called her since.
