My story, please help

[GavinO]

Ah, she is on the normal pill at the moment, she has some health issues (Very high Blood Pressure) and she smokes so I think that they are some of the reasons that she is moving to the mini pill rather than staying on the normal pill.

I sincerely doubt that there is anyone else or an A. If you want a divorce so bad then why not tell the spouse that to speed it up or something.

Still doubt very much that there is an A. (never know though of course).

It seems she wants deadbeat friends booze and drugs?!?! She is 31 and married with responsibilities, a husband who loves her, a nice house and a cat, she is not a teenager or a dropout but she seems to be acting like one.

I could understand the reaction (divorce) if I slept around, drank too much, beat her etc but I am not and never have or will.

We had a poor relationship for a year plus she had a bad year as well, a really bad relationship for 6 months (my depression). And she wants to bin it all.

Her parents are devestated and believe that she is overreacting and blaming me FAR to much for silly things really.

My wife appears to have gone nuts!!!