Your W sounds a lot like mine. She really doesn't iniate any kind of touch that much. Where my LL is also touch. I think that with the WA's that its not that things have deadned its that those feelings are just plain hurt. Those live feelings have changed to fear and resentment. I think that once your WAs can get past the fear and resentmant that they start to see the love feeling that there that is buried so deep.