Quoting jethro: Yeah, you're right and I need to stop.
So, I have to say that my W must have listened. She didn't go over to divorcee's house last night because BF would be there. In fact, we had a brief discussion about OM and her A last night where she was pretty sweet, I have to say. She said, "I meant it when I told you OM isn't half the man you are." I don't know why exactly she said it, but it was nice to hear. I thanked her...
So, SBH-SAM, I'm going to try and get myself out of this mini-slump...
How did I miss this yesterday?
She's listening and she is validating!!
Repeat that thought ... repeat it ... repeat it ... repeat it ...