Hi Jethro,

Took your advice and thought I'd jump over here and see you. Lots to read to be in the know about your sitch. I'm glad the going to the GF's house thing worked out for you. I hope you and W can come to some sort of compromise about that sitch. Hopefully she would have enough consideration for your feelings to modify the hanging out a bit. But at the same time not feel like you are a "control freak."

I was wondering about her saying that she couldn't ask if the BF was going to be there or not. A friend should be able to understand that if a sitch was causing friction at home that that was an appropriate thing to check on. Or am I being naive?

I can't begin to know what the trust thing would have to be like for you in this scenario. But, I feel like you have to come to some sort of resolution about it. Maybe it will be easier to trust again knowing she is taking your feelings into account and trying to compromise.

Have you read Getting the Love you Want from Harville Hendrix? Very good stuff, even though W and I are sep at this time. Also something that was very good for me was, The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren. More of a religious take on things, but it really got me thinking about priorities in life. ?

Well, I thank you for your input my way and I wish you the best i your mending sitch.

Bye the way, sent a short, but sweet email to W. Don't feel totally LRT by doing this, but I felt it was appropriate to test the waters with a bit of a short, happy teaser. Haven't spoken to her in a week. I'll stop about me
Take care!