MM, you're a model to me and not just because things are going well between your wife and you. I'm with you in that I'm genuine in how good I think my H and I can be, once we are back together. Just gotta get the rest of your M.O. and feelings down.
Keep up the good fight, man. We're fighting ourselves, our old relationships as well as the situations our spouses have chosen to put us in.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09