Midst of D, R even further on the downswing

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I am in the midst of my divorce. We are going to court this month to begin the proceedings and finalize details of the R. Any recent conversation ends up in an argument for whatever reason. I know my STBX has to have some type of conflict in her life and always strives to have something to fight over. I am not an angel in all of this either, regarding the downfall of our marriage, but I want to move forward for the sake of our S.

I am making every attempt to be cordial and polite with her. It is trying almost every time because she iniates so many arguments. My only hope is to stay teh course and pray that she eventually will come around. Any suggestions will be helpful...