Yes, it does. I will heed your advice and approach future situations in the manner you've mentioned. I guess, for me, she may feel as though she "paid" for it, but I don't think so. However, I know these thoughts will get US nowhere. So, I'm trying to just accept and forgive...and it's hard... I want vindication, but there is no such thing in this situation.
Quoting SBH-SAM:At least he wasn't a sleaze!
This is very true! Again, he's a good guy, but "things" happen with good guys too...
Quoting SBH-SAM:You sound a bit gloomy the past few days.
Yeah, you're right and I need to stop.
So, I have to say that my W must have listened. She didn't go over to divorcee's house last night because BF would be there. In fact, we had a brief discussion about OM and her A last night where she was pretty sweet, I have to say. She said, "I meant it when I told you OM isn't half the man you are." I don't know why exactly she said it, but it was nice to hear. I thanked her...
So, SBH-SAM, I'm going to try and get myself out of this mini-slump...
