I sent W an ad for a job I could look at back in our town. She said it would not work for me to live with her again. Instead of ignoring, I said it sounds like you have made a choice on our future, I need to be close to our kids. She said the constant melodrama is tiring, what indication has she given me that she wants me back... I said I have had no melodrama and have not talked about R for a long time, your message seemed to have some finality to it and I do not want that, that I will have no more R talk. I almost wrote to let me know when I need to retain an L.. glad I didn't backslide that much.
