Hi lodo, wish I had the magic wand to wave. It just blows my mind that she is so brazen to say 'wait for me'. Does she think she is going to fight for our country or something? 'oh lodo, please wait for me to return...from my affair.' It's so screwed up and it shows how really screwed up she is. Idunno, next time you see her have some lipstick on your collar, some long hairs stuck to your shirt. If she comes to your house have 2 dirty wine glasses and 2 dirty plates in the sink.
Don't put yourself in competition with the om. You don't have the expertise in his field, think about it. The close intimate conditions W and om will have together can backfire. Being that close they will learn about headaches and bad days and the affair bubble will burst. There will be disagreements about their work. They will find out about morning breath and bedhead hair. They will argue about who has to do the dishes and sweep the floor and who gets the remote for the tv!
Remember how I struggled when I felt I couldn't compete with my H's ow and her million dollar horse palace? I don't have her kind of money. I can't compete at her level, I can't buy my H back. I CAN let ow use her own shovel to keep burying herself. Let your W's om bury himself too.
(((lodo)))
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
