He comes home and tells D8 he was at his girlfriend's (so OW is apparently already moved out of her H's and into the new apartment H will be moving into next week) and had dinner there so wouldn't have the dinner D8 and I had made!
He tells your daughter this? Absolutely nasty and cruel.
It also tell us he's so far gone, he has no conscience.
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and H commented on how I am failing on my responsibilities again. I told him I had the flu so that was why I was late with the bath and she only got to bed a few minutes late anyway. I was up half the night sick with flu after that! I can't get over how he will comment on my failing with responsibilities right after he has spent a huge chunk of time with OW totally avoiding them completely!!!
More cruelty. But add to it malice. He's probably trying to build a case in his own mind, as well as perhaps documenting it, that you were "failing as a mom". Be careful. Make sure you keep your own journal of what happends AND when he's out of the house.
When he moves in with OW, your stress will drop. This will give you time to get your groove back.
