I am glad you are ok. Re your question. Can you treat him the way you would treat a friend that offered you help? Communication re innocent issues for me is a positive as long as it doesn't pressure you in anyway. You are the one we are looking after here. Don't think of these discussions as a substitute of anything else. Just discussion about work with a good friend. How does that sound? I really dont know. We are all facing pretty much the same problems but we are all so different... I wish I could help effectively...