No I'm here.. nothing is going on.. I am curious to know your thoughts on something though. My H is trying to include me more in his life.. through discussions about his work etc.. I validate and try to be very affirming.. How do I go about setting up some distance or boundaries without him reverting back to how he was previously when he barely spoke to me and shared nothing with me?? And I guess I'm wondering is it a positive step that he has been talking to me and asking my opinion about work and creative ideas?
He's also wanting to help me out with my work situation. I am just about to be severanced at work (which I'm happy about) and he wants to help me sort out my job direction future.. he said that he feels he can really help me with sorting through it all because he knows me better than anyone else does.
