Mishka,

Congrats that you are here!
More then ever you will now need to learn patience...don't jump right into the relationship talks, just allow each other to settle in alittle bit.
You don't want to frighten him off, just continue with your DB, acting as if.
If you see that he is making efforts, and you feel that he is truly with you, then for now thats good!
Have you thought about the retrouvaille program? My H and I did it, and it works wonders for communication, you learn how to talk to each other without all the negative stuff! There are a few of us who have taken this. Somthing to think about and possibly mention to your h.
Just try and relax for now, and enjoy that fact that H is home, and wanting to be there!


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda