wii,

Like you, I pack my cynicism with me and take it no matter where I go. Love your sarcasm! Sometimes I think I bring the worst out in you, but it's so ridiculous, all you can do is be sarcastic and laugh at it. I loved the line about taking the cap off of the "love tank". it's obvious we are married to the same woman, because like me, you would also get blamed for not teathering the cap to the "love tank" to your leg.

I guess for both of us, the sheer frustration is NEVER being accepted or being RIGHT, or partially right with moderate to severe corrections.

As my D17 said to me when she notified me W. will be seeking a D. when I get home: "If Mom isn't happy, no one can be. You know she controls the emotions of the whole family" How can we win?

Was it always like that for you, or did this constant "harping" evolve, as her "love tanks were not being filled"? That seems to be a WAW M.O.: Harping about everything and nothing. I call it "undifferentiated anger": angry at nothing and everything at the same time.